The Universe and the Number 13

Question:
3 years ago my father died and my friends were not there for me. So I let go of them, including my brother in law. But I have missed them since. But for the past year every time I think of them, mainly my former best friend, I see the number 13. I could be thinking of them and I look at the clock or an advertisement in the street etc. and I see the number 13. A few months ago I ran into my brother in law in the subway and the date was the 13th. That day I was issued a summons for something I practically do everyday without getting caught. Ever since that day I been scared to bring them back in my life due to fear something bad might happen to me in general for them being around. Maybe the universe is warning me to stay away from them or maybe to come back? This has been driving me so crazy this year that I have even been getting bad nose bleeds due to stress. My best friends Name is [name removed] and is Birth date is [date removed].

Answer: (Responses to questions rely on the accuracy of the name and birth date provided with the question. Typographical errors or incomplete information can result in an incorrect response.)