To respond to your last question first, cosmic intention or purpose isn't part of numerology calculations. Perhaps a competent psychic or tarot reader can help with that.

I can, however, make this statement without using numerology: What is always is meant to be. Otherwise, it wouldn't be that way. Because you are, you are meant to be.

Whether or not your romantic situation is meant to continue or evolve into something even more substantial or committed will depend in large part on what you and he do about it. What is meant and personal actions are intertwined.

We aren't puppets. We make our own future by what we do, the actions we take. Promises don't make futures. Only actions make futures.

One of the reasons you feel so connected and comfortable with him is both of your names begin with the same 5 letters. The first letters have very much to do with how a person approaches life. With a similar approach, you would tend to get along quite well.

8 is a number of getting stuff done. You have the wherewithal to determine how that translates to accommodate your experience.

When other numbers start being seen, each with their own meaning, it may be an indication that your focus is being eased.