When a person wonders why something is occurring, pretty much anything someone else says is the reason will seem to be right – whether it makes sense or not.

The reason for that is we're willing to accept even false answers so long as we can convince ourselves it might be right. We hate mysteries. Any answer will do so long as it makes the mystery go away.

It's the reason so many falsehoods are accepted as truth. And propagated; because getting other people to believe the falsehood somehow makes it seem more like the truth. Truth by consensus rather than truth by facts.

Be all that as it may, here is one fact: No matter what is believed, or said, or how many do the believing or saying, or how loud they shout, no words and no consensus and no belief have ever changed a fact. Not even one. Not ever.

The 4:04 and the 11:11 may indeed mean something for you. But not because somebody is talking about you. If someone wants to talk about you, whether positive or negative, they'll do so whether or not you see those numbers on a clock. Those numbers on a clock never mean somebody's talking about you. Even if it can be demonstrated that they did once both occur at the same time, the two events don't have a relationship with each other except both happened at the same time, the same time that also a car honked and a person sneezed and a baby smiled and all the other things that happened to happen at that same time. The two events are independent.

On our sister numerology site are a number of articles related to seeing the same number again and again. See this index to those articles for the list.

I think they will help your own understanding of what is happening. Everybody's situation is different and have different reasons or no reasons at all.

Be that as it may, I think the articles will help.