11:11 and a Suspended Relationship

There are a lot of dynamics in the names and birth dates you provided.

Let me mention some things without stating the underlying numbers or positions. My concern is with lots of numbers in this narrative, it may distract from the ones I'll use to make symbolic 11:11 comparisons later on.

My impression is that you tend to have a holistic outlook and resonate with the idea of new experiences better than your friend does. Your friend is introspective, somewhat of a perfectionist, and resonates with the idea of family harmony more than you do.

11:11 can be seen as symbolic of being together yet independent and, if not accepted as it is, being alone. 11:11 can symbolize a cohesive team or relationship composed of individuals not only in fact but also in outlook. A reflection to each other where one provides things the other does not have much of, and vice versa.

Both of you have 4s and 9s of varying strength, yet sufficient for a harmonious resonance between the two of you. A 4 tends to be practical, pay attention to detail, and build for the future. A 9 tends to be compassionate, giving, and seek to promote human welfare. Those aspects are within both of you.

You are strong with 8s, he has none. He is strong in 7s, you have very little.

An 8 tends to be materialistic, a manager of people, and desires or actually does direct the creation of large works that will benefit people for decades to come. An 8 tends to be an organizer, a doer.

A 7 tends to be mental and spiritual, to consult inner wisdom before making decisions, and likes things to be perfect. A 7 tends to be intuitive, pursuing fundamental truths.

It may be that both of you are waiting for the other to speak.