Psychic Number and Destiny Number Both the Same

With Pythagorean numerology, the energy represented by the number 3 resonates with creative expression (among other things).

The psychic number is not a Pythagorean numerology chart position. Perhaps it is a Vedic numerology position. To obtain an interpretation for the psychic number, a numerologist of the applicable practice may be consulted.

The destiny number, with traditional Pythagorean numerology, is the name number. The birth date number, which I think you are referring to, is the life path number.

With Pythagorean numerology, a life path number 3 attracts (among other things) creativity-related events and circumstances as the person lives life. Whether or not that is good for you would be your decision based on what you prefer for your life.