I Have Never Felt Like an Aries

I'm unprepared to talk about astrological concepts, including birth signs. Along with that, let me mention that certainly there is more than numerology to help a person understand themself. And even more than astrology. My expertise, however, is with traditional Pythagorean numerology.

A person is born when they are born and those are the numbers used for numerology calculations. It can be fun and even educational to pursue what-if and if-only ideas. But for a real numerology chart, the real numbers are used.

The energy represented by the life path number is not the overwhelming energy that, from your question, I get the idea is being considered.

Other aspects of the chart also represent energy.

As an example, your current pinnacle cycle number is the number 9. With all else being equal, it would not be stronger than your life path number. But it is seldom that all else is equal.

As an example, because you have free will, what you focus on is what you will feel. Focusing on the energy represented by the number 9 tends to give the pinnacle energy much more force. And similar with any other of your personal numerology chart aspects representing number 9 energy.

Both your heart's desire number and your personality number are the master number 11. Of course, the number 11 is not the number 9, but energy the master number represents has quite a few similar resonances. It is compatible with the 9 energy. Those energies might also mix into your perception of yourself.

Note that the life path energy is more about events and circumstances than it is about the characteristics you recognize as the person you are. It is such with most numerology chart aspects that are calculated exclusively with birth date numbers.

Numerology chart aspects that are calculated exclusively with the letters of the name are more about the person you are and your outlook on life — and less the types of events and circumstances you experience.

The "self and outlook" and the "events and circumstances" numerology chart aspects may help you to recognize what it is that you are noticing.

Do read about the master numbers. It may provide clarification.