First, let me be clear that numerology has no calculations to determine whether something is meant to be or not meant to be. Numerology is about what is. It provides glimpses of numerology energies that represent certain numbers and that can be interpreted. The energies are persistent but subtle. When it differs, free will always prevails.

I assume you are referring to the personal year number, the year number that changes every year.

The number 1 and the number 9 are compatible numbers, which means the energies they represent are compatible with each other. Every year, the numbers change.

The personal year number is a minor number in the personal numerology chart. It does have a noticeable effect for most people, noticed mostly because it is a new energy not because it has a larger effect than, say, the core numbers.

Generally, whether a relationship works depends more on what the people in the relationship do and don't do than on any other factor.

See the Compatibility of Relationships article for more insight.