Balancing Name With Date of Birth

The energy represented by your name and the energy represented by your birth date do not conflict. Is that what you meant by balance?

Or perhaps you were referring to compatibility. Your destiny number is the number 3 (name number) and your life path number is the number 6 (birth date number). Those two numbers are somewhat incompatible.

But your heart's desire number is the number 9 (another name number). And the number 9 is compatible with the number 6.

If you were referring to compatibility, the person that is you that your name number represents does not conflict with the events and circumstances your birth date energy attracts as you live life. There is also a name and birthdate bridge number calculator that might contain information you're looking for.