My own philosophy about deciding between two mutually exclusive alternatives is to follow my feelings so long as it can be done with integrity. The principle has served me well.

It might or might not work for you. I present it as something to consider.

The marriage compatibility tool can provide a glimpse into how compatible you are to each of your individual choices. The tool may help with your determination.

Your destiny number (calculated from your name) is a 5. It means you are likely to frequently and spontaneously express your sense of personal freedom. New experiences, learning about new cultures, travel, and an unfettered life tend to be important to you.

Your name has many 1's. Almost half of all the letters of your name are represented by the number 1. It means you are likely to feel a need for independence, to be self-sufficient, and to explore.

It is prudent to keep your own needs in mind when deciding who to marry. And also whether or not you actually want to get married at all.

It takes two happy people to make a happy marriage. That's why your own needs are also important.

The marriage date tool can calculate likely marriage dates.