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Partner Incompatibility

Question:
Hello, thank you for giving me this opportunity to ask you a question. So I've been stressing out for awhile because of some sort of "incompability" between me and my partner. It's been 7 months since we've been together, and I still can't help feeling uneasy. My life path number is 5, and his is 9. My expression number is 5 and his 9, Heart's desire mine is 9 and his is 8, and personality is 5 and his is 1. His name is [name removed], he was born on the [birth date removed]. (Please don't publish his name... Thank you) I was wondering; after making a lot on researches ... Is my relationship doomed to fail? What does it mean to be compatible in some aspects of the numerology, and not in the most important one? Thank you very much for your answer.

Answer: (Responses to questions rely on the accuracy of the name and birth date provided with the question. Typographical errors or incomplete information can result in an incorrect response.)

It's prudent to listen to deep inner feelings provided you can do so with integrity. Generally, it's not necessary to know the reason.

Actually, the reason might be inaccessible with numerology calculations. The reason may be outside the realm of numerology and have to do with someone or something he reminds you of, past life feelings seeping into the present, or your own instincts.

The numbers 5 and 9 are not incompatible. 9 has a degree of compatibility with all numbers. See the chart at the compatible and incompatible numbers page.

Frankly, numerological compatibility isn't required for a successful relationship. A successful relationship is dependent on two things:

  1. The definition of a successful relationship that's understood and agreed to by each of the people in the relationship.

  2. The actions of the people in the relationship that do or do not contribute to the attainment of success as defined above.

Numerology reveals tendencies and likelihoods. It doesn't compel, nor are it's calculated results a predetermination.

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