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Both Loyal, But Also Insecure
Question:
You will find that there is a huge gap between my boyfriend and I. His name is [birth name removed] his birthday is [birth date removed]. We love each other and are just like any relationship we struggle at times but keep on growing with each other and we try hard to comunicate with each other about things. We both are in the process of growing as human beings do. We both are striving to reach what ever it is we as humans are supposed too. But we both have a problem with insecurities. Which is crazy cause we both are good looking and are good at heart and obviously very loyal people in general. But we have separation anxieties when it comes time to part from each other just on a normal day. Like when I go to my daughters house I know it's boring for him but he comes anyway. He won't let me go alone. I have a hard time when he goes somewhere. Why is this? I feel I have grown enough and I'm secure with myself. I've learn to not sweat the small stuff and if it was not meant to be then let it go free. But we hang on to each other for dear life. But at the end of the day we are content and happy with each other. Can the solution be read in our numbers?
Answer: (Responses to questions rely on the accuracy of the name and birth date provided with the question. Typographical errors or incomplete information can result in an incorrect response.)
Looking at your numerology charts, I see both of your destinies are represented by the number 5.
The destiny number isn't who you will become. Instead, it is your destiny to be who you are.
The number 5 represents adventure, wit, sensuality, curiosity and, most of all, expression of personal freedom. There is an urge to experience anything and everything at least once, to see how many ways personal freedom can be expressed.
Both of you are likely to have an innate urge to explore all life has to offer. And that may be the crux of the urgent need to be together as much as possible, while you're still together.
It is likely both of you feel, perhaps subconsciously, that the lure of a new adventure is fated to take you away from the person you so much enjoy being around, the person you feel understands you. And who you feel that you understand.
There may also be a recognition of the 5 resonance in the other and the likelihood that the partner will, sooner or later, follow the lure and destiny of a new expression of personal freedom.
Ideally, you will be able to express and experience your individual senses of freedom together. Still, following the next adventure on whim tends to prevail when compared with personal responsibility, if personal responsibility is considered at all.
The 5 destiny number you both share is the part of your numerology charts that best answers your question. Still, it is not as clear-cut as it may seem from my response.
Other numbers in your charts influence the destiny number, each in its own way and to its own degree.
As an example of other numbers in your charts, your life path number is an 8, meaning situations and circumstances tend to either persist or keep coming up that require you taking charge. His life path number is a 2, meaning the things tending to keep coming up as life is lived have to do with cooperation and teamwork.
So there's more to a chart than just the destiny number.
Still, with your shared destiny number information at hand, it is possible to understand one probably reason both of you tend to always want to be in each other's company.
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