Oh, my, I haven't seen a comparison chart like this in a long time. Both of you have the same major numbers.

That could be good, depending on the numbers. But not in this case.

The conflict is that both of you have a need to be in charge. It's who you are. That's the number 8 name number. This is a lifetime thing. It's not going to ever completely go away.

Both of you have a number 2 birth date. The 2 is a number of cooperation and teamwork. It is a fact that your life and your husband's life will both require a lot of cooperation with others. If not with your spouse and families then with perhaps business or social acquaintances.

Summary: Both of you have a need to be in control. Both of you will find much cooperation and teamwork is required all along your life path.

I can not tell you what to do. Life decisions must be made by the person living the life.