A soulmate is what a person believes or feels a soul mate is and what it means. The meaning is subjective. Thus, two people talking about the subject of soulmates may be talking with different understandings even while they both think each is talking about the same thing.

Finding a Soul Mate expands on that.

To respond to your question directly, it depends on your definition of soulmate.

For the definition to be identical numbers at certain numerology chart positions of each partner's numerology chart, then a person might calculate a soulmate and the relationship still be incompatible.

As an example, there are five core numbers, the most important numbers of a personal numerology chart. Any four of those can be the same number (unless it's the number 9, in which case it can appear in all five core number positions).

Let's take the number 1 as an example. Let's suppose that in the numerology charts of two people the personality, destiny, life path, and birth day numbers are all the number 1.

If the criteria for soulmate is the most identical numbers, then four out of five identical core numbers would be about as good as it could get.

But any romantic relationship of mostly-1s is highly unlikely to survive.

The number 1 represents an independent energy. With so many 1s, the partners are unlikely to come to any serious agreements and, if they do, the agreements are apt to be broken before long. The two people are likely to split off and do their own thing before the relationship has endured very long, with both relieved and happy to be on their own again.

If you are looking for long-term relationship compatibility, consider suspending the calculations of soulmate criteria for a bit. For a little while, use the marriage compatibility calculator instead. Then, you'll be in position to judge for yourself which may be most applicable to your own goals and sense of rightness.