Balanced Name for a Female

It depends on what you envision when you say "balanced." Because you included your birth date within your question, I'm assuming you mean a name number that is compatible with your birth date number.

Your major name number (the destiny number) already is compatible with your birth date number (the life path number).

If you wish to change your name anyway, the name numbers calculator can be used to determine the name numbers for various spellings of your name. And the chart at Compatible and Incompatible Numbers can be consulted for number compatibility.