Happiness and joy are subjective and generally relate to how a person feels about themself. But I can respond to your question about destiny.

In your numerology chart is a position named "destiny." The number in that chart position represents the energy associated with who and what you are now and will be in the future.

Your destiny number is the master number 11. The destiny article has an interpretation for that number as related to the destiny position of your numerology chart.

The energy represented by your destiny number relates to not only who and what you are, but also how you approach life, your point of view, and the types of things that are satisfying and not satisfying for you.