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Not Happy In My Marriage

Question:
We got married the arranged way on [date remove]. I have loved him ever since that day. I still do. He is indifferent towards my emotional needs. Almost cold. Our relationship has been really formal with him dictating the terms. My opinion isn't considered important. Also he's a great mama's boy. We fight on almost every second day. I am living with my parents since the last one year. They are convinced he's not the kinda guy who would keep me happy. Even I think logically they are right and I should divorce him to save myself from misery. But I still find myself thinking about him and feel sad. I want to know if my marriage will last? Is he going to change? Does he love me or is he worth waiting? Do I have a future with him? If I divorce him, is there a marriage on the cards for me again? My husband's name is [name and birth date removed].

Answer: (Responses to questions rely on the accuracy of the name and birth date provided with the question. Typographical errors or incomplete information can result in an incorrect response.)

With your number 8 destiny number (calculated from your name), it is unlikely you will ever be happy in an environment where you are dictated to and required to conform to someone else's rules without your prior unconditional and continuing agreement to do so.

The 8 destiny number tells me you don't need a guy to make you happy. Maybe for other reasons, but not to make you happy. You can be happy without a guy making you that way.

Listen to your parents. Yes, you are an adult and you have several decades of life experience. But they have even more life experience and have points of view it would do well for you to consider. Realize their willingness to share their views and conclusions about life is a priceless gift.

Love is good. But love is only positive. It is blind to anything negative inherent in the person being loved.

When one is in love, only the good points are seen. When bad points are noticed, it is because there is less love felt than there once was. The love is no longer all-encompassing.

I sense you will survive and you will be happy. The number of the first letter of your name is a 5 and your life path (calculated from your birth date) is a 5. The number 5 is versatile and resilient and enjoys life most when expressing personal freedom.

I do not do cards, so can't predict whether or not you will marry again. Perhaps someone who uses cards in your area can help you with that prediction. Maybe a tarot reader.

No prediction is a prescription. It is merely a prediction, a statement of something likely to be if things keep going the way they are going.

There is a certain danger to making and receiving predictions, which is why I generally prefer not to.

Still, I can say this. The numbers are in your favor. Nothing is guaranteed, of course, because most of your future depends on what you do, the actions you take.

Life events and situations don't just happen all by themselves. It's people doing things that make life events and situations.

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