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Tremendous Struggle in Life

Question:
I want to change my name from [name removed] to [name removed] because I feel that the letter "J" has forced me to the tremendous struggle in life to date. Is the letter "S" better suited as per my date of birth, born in [location removed]. Or please suggest the best suited letter for my name for peace, success in career, love and other aspects of life.

Answer: (Responses to questions rely on the accuracy of the name and birth date provided with the question. Typographical errors or incomplete information can result in an incorrect response.)

Let me first say that no name by itself forces struggles on anybody. Nor will any letter of a name.

Note that I said the name or letter won't do it by itself. It must have help, from you.

If you believe your name or a letter of your name forces you to tremendous struggle in life, then you will make life decisions with consequences that confirm your belief. The result of the actions you take or don't take because of those decisions tend to support the belief — which then tends to strengthen the belief because it's perceived as proving the truth.

Names do resonate with certain energies. Those energies make some things more likely and other things less likely. But, by itself, there's no forcing you. It doesn't live your life for you.

What you do and what you don't do in life, and how you respond to unanticipated events, is what creates your experience and your future.

You have a wonderful name.

The letter "J" is represented by the number 1. Your primary challenge number for the first thirty-four years of your life is also the number 1. The letter "J," as the first letter of your name, tends to ameliorate the force of the challenge number, giving you support.

Your life path (your birth date number) is also the number 1. The letter "J" and your life path are in perfect resonance.

Your destiny number (your name number) is the number 5, which is highly compatible with your life path number.

Your current pinnacle cycle number, current life period cycle number, current personal year number, and next year's personal year number, all resonate well with your name.

If you have need for certain energies in your name that didn't get expressed in your question, see the index to name change articles for information that will help you.

It's best to have a reason related to gaining something when changing a name, not getting rid of something. The energies of the previous name never leave altogether, which means things aren't gotten rid of with a name change.

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