Respect is earned, not provided by a name. A career is made by doing things, not magically manifested by a name.

If there was a name that did those things, everybody would have that name.

Names represent a resonance that allows certain things to be easier and tend to make other things harder. But that's all names do. The rest is up to you.

Once you've decided what you specifically want to accomplish in life, then see the name change articles for relevant information.