Is He Just Using Me?

Unless any of the aspects are manifested in a negative manner, he is a deep thinker (vowels 7), requires harmony and a family unit for happiness (name 6), presents himself as the one in control when among others (consonants 8), and is a hard worker (birth date 4).

Still, your feelings have validity. If your feelings are not brought to the present because of past experience, then it may be time to sit down and have a talk and find out where you and he stand.